8 Pregnancy Questions That You Feel Ask Your Doctor

An obstetrician noted that the average pregnant woman has many questions, especially as the day of delivery approaches. But unfortunately, these questions are often asked by pregnant women. Instead of raising questions during pregnancy checks, pregnant women actually throw it when they are breathing heavily during childbirth and this is not a good time to ask. So that Mother does not experience such conditions, try to understand the questions that usually arise in the mind along with the following answers.

• 1. Is it normal for pregnant women to discharge a lot of fluid from the vagina during pregnancy?

Discharge from the vagina can be caused due to the condition of the rupture of membranes. But in conditions other than that, an obstetrician can say that discharge from the vagina during pregnancy is normal. This is because pregnant women experience significant hormonal changes, plus increased blood flow to the pelvis. Conditions to worry about are when the discharge comes with pain, itching, or burning. Beware also if it smells foul or very runny. This might indicate an infection in the female area.

• 2. Is it normal for a pregnant woman to experience digestive problems and her farts smell excessively unpleasant?

Yes, this problem is normal for pregnant women as the efficiency of the digestive system decreases. And again the hormonal changes that are at the root of the problem. About 85 percent of pregnant women experience discomfort in the form of morning sickness or nausea and vomiting, and bloating in early pregnancy. If left without treatment, the condition which gradually becomes reflux of stomach acid can later become indigestion. To relieve constipation or constipation, make sure you drink lots of water, eat foods rich in fiber, vegetables and fruits. Pregnant women can also use stool softeners according to doctor's instructions if necessary. Meanwhile, to reduce heartburn, eat often with small portions, avoid spicy and sour foods, and lie on your back using an extra pillow. However, if digestive disorders experienced continue, do not hesitate to consult with a doctor.

• 3. Are you overweight?

For some pregnant women, this question may feel sensitive so reluctant to ask the doctor. In fact, this topic is important to discuss because weight is an important aspect for the health of the mother and fetus. Therefore, do not be shy to consult with your doctor about what your ideal weight during pregnancy.

• 4. If the husband becomes afraid of sexual intercourse when Mother is pregnant, what should be done?

Having sex is a real fear for a husband when his wife is pregnant. Maybe the husband thinks that having sex can hurt the baby. Consult your obstetrician about when to have sex and whether your mother has certain risks that need to fast sex. If the doctor says it is safe to have sex, try to convince your husband many times that sex will not hurt the mother and the baby.

• 5. Will labor damage the vagina?

Of course not. Don't worry about the size of your vagina because the vagina is created with flexural power that can adjust when labor and then contract back to its normal size. To help strengthen the vaginal muscles, Mother can do Kegel exercises 4-5 times a day after giving birth. Kegel exercises are relatively easy to do, the way to contract the pelvic muscles as if they were holding urine for a few seconds, then relax again. Do ten sets at a time.

• 6. Will Mother defecate during labor?

If your intestines are full, you may be excreted while pushing to expel a baby. This is because the large intestine is located under the uterus and when pushing can have an effect on pressing the intestinal region and anus. However, don't worry about pooping, focus on your baby. Remember that people in the delivery room are there to support and help you. In addition, medical professionals have an awareness of the privacy and dignity of patients.

• 7. After giving birth, why does intercourse hurt more?

Postpartum, Mother still has trauma wounds that will need time to recover. Plus, if Mother breastfeeding then hormone levels change so that triggers vaginal lubrication problems. Try using a lubricant during sex. In addition, give time for the body to adjust to postpartum sex. Consult your doctor if you don't get better after a few months.

• 8. Is it true that you cannot control your bladder after giving birth?

As the day of labor approaches, bladder control becomes weaker. Furthermore bladder control tends to decrease after giving birth. However, this condition will usually improve in the six weeks to three months after delivery. In addition, Kegel exercises can also help through this condition. Mother can also consult with a doctor about this condition in case of certain health problems.

In addition to the questions above, of course there are still some questions that you need to ask your obstetrician yourself because the answers can vary depending on your condition and your abilities, limitations, and doctor's opinion. It never hurts to note the following questions and ask the doctor during a pregnancy check.

Questions about Pregnancy

The following group of questions aims to anticipate things that are felt to have an impact on the well-being of the fetus, including emergencies that occur suddenly.

• What kind of treatment for morning sickness do doctors recommend?
• What special foods to eat and what exercise should be done during pregnancy?
• How do you determine the day of birth?
• What vitamins are needed and why?
• Are there restrictions on drugs, food, or activities that need to be avoided?
• Is there a high risk in pregnancy now?
• Is it safe to have sex during pregnancy?
• What are the conditions that require to contact a doctor?

Questions about Delivery to a Doctor

The things below are a selection of questions suggested for Mother to ask as an additional step to anticipate the worst possible while undergoing labor. Determine your own priorities regarding the questions you want to express according to your own condition.

• Is the doctor in charge of my labor?
• Do you support normal births?
• What is your 'primary cesarean level' compared to the average level in your hospital? As information for the Mother, the primary caesarean level describes how likely a doctor is to perform the first caesarean section for the Mother. The ideal primary cesarean rate is around 15-20 percent.
• Are midwives available at this hospital and do doctors object to partnering with midwives if I choose to give birth with the help of midwives at this hospital?
• If the membranes break, should you go directly to the hospital or should you contact you?
• If the labor stage does not progress, how much time do I have until finally being induced?
• How long does the doctor usually spend with me during labor?
• If my baby has complications, is he admitted to this hospital or referred to another hospital?
• How many people can accompany me during labor?
• How long do I have to stay in the hospital after delivery? Is it okay if I want to go home earlier than the time recommended by the doctor?
• Does the hospital provide a lactation consultant that will help me breastfeed?

By asking these questions, you can understand your doctor's abilities and limitations so that they can be used to prevent conflict, not fulfill your expectations, disappointments, and frustrations that may arise.